As I mentioned, I’ve been tempted to do the occasional fashion-blog of my own outfits, as the dashing ladies of academichic and Already Pretty do, so here we go!
Because the focus of this blog — um, yes, this blog does have a focus, thank you very much! — is social behavior and how we live in the world, I think I’m only going to do this when I have some larger point to make besides “Dig my cool new belt!” So here’s the story on this outfit.
Every Wednesday during term at Harvard, the Rev. Peter Gomes of Harvard’s Memorial Church holds a tea from 5 to 6 at Sparks House, and about once a semester, I am invited to pour.
I poured last Wednesday, when it had been pouring outdoors (that Ugly Wintry Mix, remember?) for most of the day. I’d also been indoors writing for most of the day, swathed in layers of leggings and socks and sweatshirts. So I was very much of a mind to dress up a bit. In my writing about style, I’ve mostly focused on clothing and grooming as a way of communicating ourselves to others. That’s certainly important, but how we dress and fix ourselves up affects our own mood, as well. My mood wasn’t exactly an ugly wintry mix, but it was … foggy, shall we say. So I needed an outfit that would get my energy up, make me feel ladylike (as an etiquette columnist should while pouring tea at a minister’s house!) and playful.
I like to dress against the colors of the season, when the season is getting on my nerves. On a steamy August day, a black shift dress matched with a black sunhat and sunglasses makes me feel more like a sexy Mediterranean and less like a schvitzy pig. On the ugly winter days, springtime colors lift the mood. Try it sometime!
I’d also gone against my usually conservative makeup style and picked up a teal eyeliner — which looks surprisingly good on us hazel-eyed gals! — so an upbeat “Aprille with his shoures soote” green was to be the theme. Here’s how it looked. (We need to get a bit better at the photography; you can’t tell so much from the picture, but my tights are a sprucy green that complements the cardigan.)
Earrings: Utso Tibetan Boutique
Necklace: eBay
Tank top: Chico’s Travelers, eBay
Cardigan: J. Crew, eBay
Skirt: Leather, designer unknown, eBay
Bracelet: Victoria Tane, purchased at local art fair
Tights: We Love Colors
Boots: Dav rain boots from Designer Shoe Warehouse
What do you think? Would coming in from a cold dark night to fireplace-lit room and seeing a woman dressed like this, offering you a good hot cup of tea, lift your spirits into something better than an ugly wintry mix?
P.S. Those of you with experience in close textual analysis might notice a theme when it comes to the source of my clothing. Here are my tips on how to successfully shop for clothes on eBay.
P.P.S. Those books I’m using as a doorstop? Stephen King’s Desperation, The Regulators, and Nightmares and Dreamscapes. I needed a doorstop for that door, because my ironing board lives behind it, and I thought, “Y’know, people who hate on Stephen King always say you could use his books for doorstops.” Turns out they’re right.

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11 Comments to 'My fashion blogging debut!'
December 14, 2009
Oooh, very nice! You would most definitely lift my mood on an ugly wintry-mix sort of day. I’m with you when it comes to wearing colors against the season to lighten a mood. I also have great respect for your ability to buy clothes on ebay, which is something I would approach with great trepidation.
December 14, 2009
Love the outfit. Minus the jewelery, it looks frighteningly (in a good “were we separated at birth?” kind of way) like something I would wear myself. You would definitely lift my mood on a horrible winter day! I love all the green. It’s one of the colors that looks putrid on me, so I admire people who can carry it off.
I avoid e-Bay, so congrats to you for finding decent, wearable clothes there!
LOL at the Stephen King doorstop!
Please continue blogging about fashion. If nothing else, it inspires me to breathe a little more life into my already-tired winter wardrobe. It’s so hard to think about presenting yourself well when your #1 concern is how to get from the house to the car without killing yourself on the Driveway Glacier. Dang, they really should make Yak Trax in multiple colors so I can coordinate them with my outfits!
Speaking of holidays, MC, have you seen the Star Trek menorah? There was a link to a picture of it at the Park Bench blog.
December 14, 2009
I love that you dress against the season. I’m so boring. I think I wear red about 20 days out of the month in December!
That was one serious storm. I applaud you for bringing out your spring-y side for the evening. You’re all Zephyrus and sweet breeth.
I had to memorize the Prologue to the Canterbury Tales in high school and I will never forget it.
December 14, 2009
AHHH I’m in the middle of writing a very long and involved paper about The Canterbury Tales, the engraving by William Blake of The Canterbury Pilgrims, and Thomas Stothard’s painting of the same. Tie that all together with the sister arts theory of the 18th century and BAM! that’s my paper. Not that that pertains to your post, really, but it’s all I can think about right now…
Also, I have a leather skirt just like that which I also got off ebay. Wonderful. I like the bright green… must work on getting colors into my own wardrobe.
December 14, 2009
I think this definitely would lift my mood. Besides there’s something so appropriately “tea time” about the outfit while still being modern.
December 14, 2009
I LOVE this outfit! The cardi is super cute- I’m such a huge fan of argyle and bright colors.
December 14, 2009
Thanks for all your comments! Share your fashion challenges, too, and I’ll try to address them in future posts.
For those of you who are leery of clothes-shopping on eBay, do check out my tips. I’d say maybe one in 10 things I get doesn’t work, but I can consign or give those away, and when you amortize the loss across the savings, it still works. (Did I use the word “amortize” correctly?) A J. Crew cardigan, leather skirt, and Chico’s top would run what I, at least, consider serious shekels retail. Got ‘em for a fraction of that.
EA Week, yes, I have seen the Star Trek menorah! It’s here:
http://www.evilmadscientist.com/article.php/tosmenorah
You’d have to say “Engage!” when you lit it, wouldn’t you?
But THIS is the menorah I truly covet, the Steampunk Menorah:
http://www.boingboing.net/2005/03/17/menorahs-made-out-of.html
Seriously, how bitchin’ is that? (And how long until Molly writes a song parody “Bitchin’ Menorah”?)
For all my Chaucer-learning friends: my best friend in high school used to do the prologue in the voice of the Swedish Chef from the Muppets, adding a “bork-bork-bork” when it seemed to fit in. It was both hilarious and also kind of scarily legitimate-sounding!
December 14, 2009
If “Bitchin’ Menorah” is a parody of “Bitchin’ Camaro,” I would seriously buy a copy. Now there’s a holiday song that needs to happen! Where is Weird Al when you need him?
December 14, 2009
Oooh, want Steampunk Menorah!
Back to fashion. I love most the outfit, although the boots are a bit out of balance to me. (On the other hand, I live in California so my perceptions on boots are somewhat skewed.) I’d say though that you are dressing only half against the season — the light, bright green, while being cheerful and sunny — still harmonizes nicely with holly and ivy and evergreen, which is, I think, a nice touch. If it were orange or baby blue it would have been too not-December, whereas this creates a kind of “look from another angle” emphasis instead.
And (speaking as a theatrical costumer) the argyle is just perfect — it pushes all my English mystery book tea at the vicarage buttons!
(FWIW, vis-a-vis ebay buying, “fitting in one measurement” is much easier for some shapes than others. I can’t imagine buying a a Chico’s shell without trying it on. I’m of the curvy but not always in the right direction persuasion, and I while know my Chico’s size, only about half the things in it look good on me — the others obviously expect me to zig where I zag, as it were.)
December 15, 2009
You all may blame Robin directly for this; I didn’t even KNOW this song until about an hour ago.
BITCHIN’ MENORAH
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
Displayed to all the neighbors
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
Each night, lightin’ more of the tapers
Got myself a bitchin’ menorah
With candles that light in a flash
I light it with a flamethrower so
I don’t need no freakin’ match
I set the curtains on fire
The first night of Chanukah
I didn’t get in trouble ’cause
I didn’t break halacha (or “Jewish law”, depending on your audience)
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
Polished to a high gloss
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
Latkes with bourbon sauce
When I take it to shul
They kvetch about it all week
Cause I’ve got a bitchin’ menorah
And mad lighting technique
So you’d better get out of my way
Whether it’s night one or eight
Cause I’ve got a bitchin’ menorah
And a dreidl game that can’t wait
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
Givin’ the Gentiles fits!
Bitchin’ Menorah, Bitchin’ Menorah!
I’m drunk on Maneschewitz!
December 17, 2009
Clapping madly!
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